Why “Never Go to Bed Angry” is Terrible Advice

“Man and woman holding hands, looking away towards a setting sun” by Ryan Holloway on Unsplash

My most brilliant achievement was my ability to be able to persuade my wife to marry me.

— Winston Churchill

My wife is a Saint.

We’ve had many conversations about how in her Family they have a problem of being what we’ve grown to call “over-selfless.” She cares too much about others, often to neglecting to care for herself for…